
Two weeks before Merle Haggard died on his 79th birthday, he called Marty Stuart from his sickbed in California to talk about a new song he had just written called “My Last Escape.”
Even with his voice weakened by double pneumonia, Haggard still picked up the phone the same way he had for decades whenever a song idea or an old road memory crossed his mind. When he passed away on the morning of April 6, 2016—on both his birthday and the tenth anniversary of his friend Buck Owens’ death—his wife Theresa and their children knew immediately who should lead the farewell.
Three days later, on the afternoon of April 9, family members and a small circle of friends gathered at Haggard’s ranch in Palo Cedro, California, for the modest outdoor burial he had requested. His casket rested beneath a large oak tree near the vintage railroad car he kept on the property, a lifelong echo of the converted Santa Fe boxcar where his story had started nearly eighty years earlier.
Before Merle Ronald Haggard was born on April 6, 1937, his parents, James and Flossie Haggard, had migrated west from Oklahoma to California after their barn burned down in 1934. In 1935, James Haggard—who worked for the Santa Fe Railroad—paid $500 for an old wooden railroad boxcar and moved it onto a vacant lot at 1303 Yosemite Drive in Oildale, just outside Bakersfield.
His parents tacked two extra rooms onto the boxcar, installed plumbing and a stove, and hung floral wallpaper inside. That converted train car sheltered the family through the end of the Great Depression until 1945, when nine-year-old Merle lost his father to a sudden brain hemorrhage.
While Flossie took a job as a bookkeeper to keep the household afloat, her youngest son struggled with the loss. Although his older brother Lowell handed down a guitar when Merle was twelve, the years following his father’s death led through juvenile detention centers, freight-train runaways across Texas, and eventually a 1958 transfer to San Quentin State Prison as inmate A45200.
Released in 1960, Haggard dug ditches for his brother’s electrical company by day and played Bakersfield clubs at night before turning the memory of his mother’s devotion inside that Oildale boxcar house into songs like “Mama Tried” and thirty-eight number-one country hits. In August 2015, less than a year before his death, that original Oildale boxcar was carefully relocated to the Kern County Museum in Bakersfield for permanent preservation.
Marty Stuart first entered Haggard’s orbit in the late 1970s and early 1980s, after leaving Mississippi as a teenager to play mandolin for Lester Flatt and later joining Johnny Cash’s touring band. Over the decades that followed, the seventeen-year age gap between them disappeared into a close friendship built on Jimmie Rodgers, Bob Wills, and the working-class Bakersfield sound.
Whenever Stuart brought a rough draft to his mentor, Haggard had a way of sharpening it with a single word. On one occasion, Stuart showed him a song line he had written about having walked the land, and Haggard suggested changing walked to worked—a one-word adjustment Stuart later pointed to as the exact difference between an ordinary lyric and a Merle Haggard song.
In the summer of 2003, the two hit the road together for the Electric Barnyard Tour alongside Connie Smith, Rhonda Vincent, and BR549. To mark the tour, Stuart and Haggard went into the studio and recorded “Farmer’s Blues,” a duet written by Stuart and Smith for Stuart’s *Country Music* album that ended with Haggard yodeling in the tradition of Jimmie Rodgers.
Haggard never mentioned to Stuart that he wanted him to conduct his funeral. Stuart only found out on the day Haggard died, when the family called from California to tell him it had been Merle’s wish.
Under the oak tree in Palo Cedro on April 9, with Kris Kristofferson and Willie Nelson’s family in attendance, Stuart stood in the open air with an acoustic guitar, read prayers built around everyday memories of his friend, and sang “Silver Wings” alongside his wife, Connie Smith.
Back home in Tennessee, Stuart still preserves the instruments and handwritten pages Haggard passed down to him, keeping the memory of the mentor who called from his sickbed with one more song right up until the end.