
When Marty Robbins entered Columbia Recording Studio in Nashville with producer Bob Johnston and engineer Neil Wilburn to cut “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife” for its January 1970 release, he was singing as a 44-year-old husband who had nearly run out of time. Months after a severe August 1969 heart attack on the road in Cleveland, Ohio, forced him into Nashville’s St. Thomas Hospital and led to triple coronary artery bypass surgery in January 1970, the singer turned twenty-two years of marriage to Marizona Baldwin into the fourteenth number one country hit of his career.
That hospital scare interrupted a schedule that had kept Robbins away from his Brentwood, Tennessee, home for more than 200 days a year. Between headlining the Grand Ole Opry, hosting television programs, and driving stock cars on the NASCAR circuit, the Arizona native had spent two decades surrounded by road temptations that broke apart many Nashville households.
His refusal to let stardom touch his marriage went back to a hard childhood in Glendale, Arizona. After growing up poor with a hard-drinking father and watching his parents divorce when he was twelve, Robbins promised himself that his own wife and children would never face betrayal.
When he married eighteen-year-old Marizona Baldwin on September 27, 1948, he was a twenty-three-year-old Navy veteran digging ditches, delivering milk, and driving trucks for day wages. Even after hits like “Singing the Blues” and “El Paso” made him a matinee idol with millions of female admirers, he ignored industry handlers who advised him to downplay his family life.
Instead, Robbins dedicated songs to Marizona from the Opry stage and on national television broadcasts. While other touring acts headed to hotel parties after the curtain fell, the teetotaling singer stayed in his dressing room playing acoustic guitar or placing long-distance telephone calls home to Marizona and their two children, Ronny and Janet.
Still, the pace of his career meant Marizona carried the daily weight of raising their son and daughter in Brentwood while worrying over his late-night drives and speedway crashes. When the August 1969 heart attack struck in Ohio and brought him to St. Thomas Hospital, doctors warned that his heart was badly damaged and recommended the newly developed triple-bypass procedure performed in January 1970.
Accounts long circulated around Nashville that Robbins began sketching out the ballad while recovering in his hospital bed, looking at the woman who had stayed beside him from a small Arizona apartment to a surgical ward. In a 1978 interview, Robbins explained that he wrote the song specifically for Marizona because the lines expressed the exact things a husband ought to say to his wife, adding that she lived up to every word on the record.
Rather than writing about young romance or the Western dramas that made him famous, Robbins built the song around a working wife’s tired hands, her quiet steadiness through everyday hardship, and a prayer asking God to give her his own share of heaven. Working in Nashville with Johnston and Wilburn, he delivered the vocal in a warm baritone backed by gentle piano and strings that kept every word in front of the arrangement.
Issued by Columbia Records on January 23, 1970, with “Martha Ellen Jenkins” on the B-side, “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife” climbed to number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and spent fifteen weeks on the survey. The single also crossed over to number 42 on the Billboard Hot 100, topped the Canadian country chart, and anchored a May 1970 album of the same name that reached number two on the country albums chart.
Later in 1970, pop star Dean Martin recorded the ballad as the title track of his own Reprise Records album, while the Country Music Association nominated Robbins’s record for both Single and Song of the Year. At the 13th Annual Grammy Awards in March 1971, the tribute to Marizona won the Grammy Award for Best Country Song, giving Robbins the second Grammy trophy of his career eleven years after “El Paso”.
The bypass surgery and the hit record gave the couple twelve more years together before a third heart attack brought Robbins back to St. Thomas Hospital in December 1982. He died there on December 8, 1982, at age fifty-seven, with Marizona, Ronny, and Janet holding his hand at the bedside, keeping intact the promise he had made to an eighteen-year-old bride in Arizona thirty-four years earlier.