
When Reba McEntire and Rex Linn walked down a Los Angeles street after a late-night dinner in January 2020, they had already known each other as industry friends for nearly thirty years.
Their connection went all the way back to 1991, when both were cast alongside Kenny Rogers in the television Western *The Gambler Returns: The Luck of the Draw*. Born in Spearman, Texas, and raised in Oklahoma City, Linn had left a career in banking and oilfield work in the 1980s to pursue acting, building a steady resume in Westerns and character roles before moving to California. Over the three decades that followed that 1991 film set, the two kept in touch whenever their schedules crossed in Los Angeles or Nashville, trading occasional text messages and sharing a familiarity rooted in Oklahoma ranch culture.
In late January 2020, McEntire flew to California to film a guest appearance as baseball coach June Ballard on the CBS sitcom *Young Sheldon*, where Linn had a recurring role as High School Principal Petersen. After taping, the two met for dinner with McEntire’s longtime makeup artist, Brett Freedman, and stayed out late talking and laughing at a neighborhood wine bar.
Within days of that dinner, McEntire was called back to Oklahoma after her 93-year-old mother, Jacqueline McEntire, suffered a stroke and was diagnosed with bladder cancer. When Jacqueline passed away on March 14, 2020, pandemic lockdowns were shutting down travel across the country, forcing the family to postpone a full funeral and leaving McEntire quarantined with her sister Alice on their family ranch in Chockie, Oklahoma.
Stuck at home in California while McEntire grieved her mother in Oklahoma, Linn began calling and texting her every morning to check on how she was holding up. Those early check-ins quickly grew into a structured daily lifeline across two time zones.
Every morning, the two dialed up each other on FaceTime for a ritual they named Coffee Camp, talking over breakfast while McEntire walked the Oklahoma pastures or sat on the porch. In the evenings, they logged back on for what they called Virtual Tavern, pouring a glass of wine or whiskey and talking for hours about their childhoods in Oklahoma, their careers, and the losses they had carried.
Because travel restrictions kept them in separate states from March until June 2020, they spent nearly three months building a courtship entirely through conversation before they could sit in the same room again. Both arrived at those screen-to-screen talks from very different histories of living alone.
McEntire had been married twice before—first to rodeo champion Charlie Battles from 1976 to 1987, and then for twenty-six years to her former manager Narvel Blackstock before their 2015 divorce—and had ended a two-year relationship with Anthony “Skeeter” Lasuzzo in the fall of 2019. Linn, who had broken off an engagement many years earlier, had lived past his sixtieth birthday as a lifelong bachelor.
When quarantine travel rules finally eased in June 2020, Linn flew to Nashville so they could have their first in-person date since January. Later that year, during a trip to Savannah, Georgia, a restaurant plate of crispy tater tots prompted Linn to give her the nickname Tater Tot, and she began calling him Sugar Tot in return.
By October 2020, the couple went public with their relationship on McEntire’s *Living & Learning* podcast, and they soon began sharing life and screen work together. In 2022, they played a married Montana couple facing a dark secret on the third season of the ABC drama *Big Sky*, followed in the fall of 2024 by the NBC sitcom *Happy’s Place*, which starred McEntire as a tavern owner alongside Linn as the short-order cook.
Away from the studio cameras, Linn quietly planned to ask her to marry him, eventually proposing on Christmas Eve 2024 during an evening walk at a favorite spot near their Tennessee home. Rather than making an immediate public announcement, the couple kept the news to themselves and their close circle for nearly nine months.
They finally confirmed the engagement on September 14, 2025, while walking the red carpet together at the 77th Primetime Emmy Awards in Los Angeles at ages 70 and 68. For two friends who first shook hands on a Western movie set in 1991, the real foundation of their future together was built during the spring of 2020, when two phone screens bridged the distance between California and an Oklahoma ranch.