
When Rex Linn pulled into Reba McEntire’s driveway in Lebanon, Tennessee, in early June 2020, he had only Packed enough clothes for a short visit, yet that afternoon started a transition that soon brought his permanent life east from California.
Before stepping out of the car to hug her for the first time since the pandemic began, the sixty-three-year-old actor and the sixty-five-year-old country star had spent nearly ninety days building a courtship entirely through their phone screens.
Although the two Oklahoma natives had known each other socially since filming the 1991 television Western *The Gambler Returns: The Luck of the Draw* with Kenny Rogers, their relationship had remained a casual acquaintance for twenty-nine years. That changed in late January 2020 when McEntire flew to Los Angeles to film a guest role on CBS’s *Young Sheldon*, where Linn played High School Principal Tom Petersen, and the two met for a late dinner that lingered into the night.
Weeks later, McEntire’s ninety-three-year-old mother, Jacqueline McEntire, passed away on March 14, 2020, just as national lockdowns halted travel and forced the family to postpone a funeral. Quarantined with her sister Susie at their family ranch in rural Atoka County, Oklahoma, McEntire began receiving daily calls from Linn back in Sherman Oaks, California.
Because Oklahoma sat two hours ahead of the West Coast, Linn set his alarm for five in the morning every day so he could brew coffee and join her on FaceTime for a ritual they called Coffee Camp, followed each evening by hours of conversation they dubbed Virtual Tavern. By the time domestic travel restrictions eased in June and both made their way to Tennessee, they had already talked through childhood memories, faith, and McEntire’s 2015 divorce from Narvel Blackstock without ever holding hands.
Waiting for him to arrive at her Lebanon estate left both veterans of the entertainment industry with racing hearts and nervous energy. Because Tennessee dining rooms were still restricted that summer, their first days together stayed inside the gates of her property, where they cooked meals in her kitchen, walked beneath the trees, and finally drank their morning coffee side by side on the porch.
Later that summer, when they traveled to Savannah, Georgia, a restaurant basket of crispy tater tots prompted Linn to give her the nickname Tater Tot, and she answered by calling him Sugar Tot. By October 2020, McEntire confirmed on her *Living & Learning* podcast that they were officially in a relationship and had been nearly inseparable since June.
Rather than maintaining separate residences on opposite sides of the country, Linn gradually moved out of his longtime bachelor home in California to share McEntire’s life in middle Tennessee. Around the same time, after the June 2020 sale of her longtime lakeside estate, Cherokee Dock, the couple settled into a quieter routine focused on home cooking, backyard grilling, and road trips between Tennessee and Oklahoma.
Sharing a roof soon led to working side by side on projects that reflected both of their careers. Between 2021 and early 2023, Linn joined McEntire in Atoka, Oklahoma, to help oversee the restoration of a century-old Masonic temple into Reba’s Place, a three-story restaurant, bar, and live music venue where Linn helped test the menu and contributed family memorabilia to the walls.
On screen, they signed on to play a married Montana couple, Sunny and Buck Barnes, during the 2022–2023 season of the ABC drama *Big Sky*, spending months living and filming together on location in Albuquerque, New Mexico. When McEntire took a coaching chair on NBC’s *The Voice* in 2023 and 2024, Linn became a constant presence backstage before the two teamed up again for the NBC sitcom *Happy’s Place*, which premiered in October 2024 with McEntire starring as tavern owner Bobbie McAllister and Linn playing the short-order cook, Emmett.
Two months after that series debuted, on Christmas Eve 2024, Linn asked McEntire to marry him during an evening at home, and the couple kept the engagement private for nearly nine months until walking the red carpet at the 77th Primetime Emmy Awards in Los Angeles on September 14, 2025.
Even after merging their homes, television schedules, and business ventures across three states, they still begin their mornings at the kitchen table with two mugs of coffee, keeping the promise that started when his car turned into her Tennessee driveway in June 2020.