
When Rex Linn reported to the set of *The Gambler Returns: The Luck of the Draw* in the fall of 1991, he had only been living in Los Angeles for two years and was still trying to prove he belonged in the screen actors’ union.
On that NBC television Western, 36-year-old Reba McEntire shared top billing as frontier madam Burgundy Jones alongside Kenny Rogers as Brady Hawkes, while the 34-year-old Linn had a brief supporting part as a roughneck named Henry.
Both arrived on location carrying very different weights. McEntire was two years into her marriage to manager Narvel Blackstock, raising their infant son Shelby, and forcing herself back in front of cameras just months after the March 16, 1991 plane crash near San Diego that killed seven members of her touring band and her tour manager, Jim Hammon.
Linn had grown up in Oklahoma City after leaving the Texas Panhandle, spending his twenties as a vice president at Lakeshore Bank before the 1982 Penn Square Bank collapse pushed him into western Oklahoma oilfield work and eventually out to California in 1989.
Between camera setups, the headliner in nineteenth-century saloon wardrobe and the six-foot-four day player immediately recognized each other’s Oklahoma cadence. Trading dry hometown humor and stories about growing up in the same state gave McEntire an easy, unguarded piece of home during the heaviest season of her career.
Once the four-hour television movie aired in November 1991, their daily lives separated onto completely different tracks for the next twenty-nine years. McEntire released her grief-soaked milestone album *For My Broken Heart*, built her Starstruck Entertainment headquarters on Music Row, headlined Broadway’s *Annie Get Your Gun* in 2001, and spent six seasons leading her hit television sitcom *Reba*.
Out in Sherman Oaks, California, Linn methodically turned himself into one of Hollywood’s busiest character actors. A breakout role opposite Sylvester Stallone in the 1993 action thriller *Cliffhanger* led to thirty-five films and dozens of television appearances, including a recurring stretch on *JAG* and ten seasons playing Detective Frank Tripp on *CSI: Miami* from 2002 to 2012.
Throughout those three decades, Linn stayed inside a respectful boundary while keeping their Oklahoma friendship alive. Whenever charity golf tournaments, country music award shows, or mutual friends brought him through Nashville, he made sure to track McEntire down to say hello, ask about her family, and send occasional text messages to stay in touch.
Even as their personal lives shifted in the 2010s, the timing never lined up at the same moment. After calling off an engagement earlier in his life, Linn settled into his fifties and sixties as a committed bachelor, while McEntire went through a 2015 divorce after twenty-six years of marriage to Blackstock and later spent two years dating wildlife photographer Anthony “Skeeter” Lasuzzo until the fall of 2019.
Their paths finally converged on the same studio lot in January 2020 when McEntire flew to Los Angeles to film a guest role as youth baseball coach June Ballard on CBS’s *Young Sheldon*, where Linn had a recurring part as Principal Tom Petersen. Seeing her name on the production schedule, Linn texted to invite her to dinner with her makeup artist, Brett Freedman, leading to a late night of wine, stories, and a table selfie as two single sixty-somethings catching up.
Two months later, in March 2020—the same month their former *Gambler* co-star Kenny Rogers passed away at age 81—McEntire’s 93-year-old mother, Jacqueline, died of cancer right as pandemic lockdowns stranded the singer on her family ranch in Oklahoma.
Hearing the news in California, Linn began calling McEntire at dawn every morning and again every evening on FaceTime, turning twenty-nine years of quiet acquaintance into the daily lifeline they called Coffee Camp and Virtual Tavern.
After reuniting in person that June, they built a shared home in Tennessee, played husband and wife on ABC’s *Big Sky*, co-starred on the 2024 NBC comedy *Happy’s Place*, and got engaged on Christmas Eve 2024 before confirming the news at the Emmy Awards in September 2025.
The supporting actor who once stood in the background of her 1991 camera frame waited nearly three decades as a polite friend from back home before stepping forward to walk beside her for good.