Throughout 34 years of marriage at the height of Nashville stardom, Marty Robbins gave tabloid reporters nothing to write about except a husband hurrying home to Brentwood, Tennessee. His devotion to family grew out of a hard childhood in Arizona. After growing up poor with an alcoholic father and watching his parents divorce when he was 12, Robbins promised himself his own wife and children would never face betrayal. He never forgot that Marizona Baldwin married him in 1948 when he was a broke Navy veteran digging ditches and driving trucks. From the 1950s through the 1970s, while road life wrecked many country marriages, Robbins drew millions of female fans with his movie-star looks and string of hits. Instead of hiding his marriage as industry handlers often advised, he regularly dedicated songs to Marizona from the Grand Ole Opry stage and on television. Once shows ended, the teetotaling singer skipped the hotel parties to play guitar backstage or call home on long-distance lines. Back in Brentwood, Marizona quietly kept their home steady while Robbins toured more than 200 days a year and raced NASCAR. After a severe 1969 heart attack and 1970 bypass surgery made clear how fragile his time was, Robbins marked 22 years of marriage by writing My Woman, My Woman, My Wife in gratitude for her patience. The 1970 ballad reached number one on the Billboard country chart and won a Grammy Award in 1971. Their 1948 promise held until December 8, 1982, when Robbins died at Nashville’s St. Thomas Hospital at age 57 following his third heart attack, with Marizona and their children, Ronny and Janet, holding his hand at the bedside.

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When Marty Robbins entered Columbia Recording Studio in Nashville with producer Bob Johnston and engineer Neil Wilburn to cut “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife” for its January 1970 release, he was singing as a 44-year-old husband who had nearly run out of time. Months after a severe August 1969 heart attack on the road in Cleveland, Ohio, forced him into Nashville’s St. Thomas Hospital and led to triple coronary artery bypass surgery in January 1970, the singer turned twenty-two years of marriage to Marizona Baldwin into the fourteenth number one country hit of his career.

That hospital scare interrupted a schedule that had kept Robbins away from his Brentwood, Tennessee, home for more than 200 days a year. Between headlining the Grand Ole Opry, hosting television programs, and driving stock cars on the NASCAR circuit, the Arizona native had spent two decades surrounded by road temptations that broke apart many Nashville households.

His refusal to let stardom touch his marriage went back to a hard childhood in Glendale, Arizona. After growing up poor with a hard-drinking father and watching his parents divorce when he was twelve, Robbins promised himself that his own wife and children would never face betrayal.

When he married eighteen-year-old Marizona Baldwin on September 27, 1948, he was a twenty-three-year-old Navy veteran digging ditches, delivering milk, and driving trucks for day wages. Even after hits like “Singing the Blues” and “El Paso” made him a matinee idol with millions of female admirers, he ignored industry handlers who advised him to downplay his family life.

Instead, Robbins dedicated songs to Marizona from the Opry stage and on national television broadcasts. While other touring acts headed to hotel parties after the curtain fell, the teetotaling singer stayed in his dressing room playing acoustic guitar or placing long-distance telephone calls home to Marizona and their two children, Ronny and Janet.

Still, the pace of his career meant Marizona carried the daily weight of raising their son and daughter in Brentwood while worrying over his late-night drives and speedway crashes. When the August 1969 heart attack struck in Ohio and brought him to St. Thomas Hospital, doctors warned that his heart was badly damaged and recommended the newly developed triple-bypass procedure performed in January 1970.

Accounts long circulated around Nashville that Robbins began sketching out the ballad while recovering in his hospital bed, looking at the woman who had stayed beside him from a small Arizona apartment to a surgical ward. In a 1978 interview, Robbins explained that he wrote the song specifically for Marizona because the lines expressed the exact things a husband ought to say to his wife, adding that she lived up to every word on the record.

Rather than writing about young romance or the Western dramas that made him famous, Robbins built the song around a working wife’s tired hands, her quiet steadiness through everyday hardship, and a prayer asking God to give her his own share of heaven. Working in Nashville with Johnston and Wilburn, he delivered the vocal in a warm baritone backed by gentle piano and strings that kept every word in front of the arrangement.

Issued by Columbia Records on January 23, 1970, with “Martha Ellen Jenkins” on the B-side, “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife” climbed to number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and spent fifteen weeks on the survey. The single also crossed over to number 42 on the Billboard Hot 100, topped the Canadian country chart, and anchored a May 1970 album of the same name that reached number two on the country albums chart.

Later in 1970, pop star Dean Martin recorded the ballad as the title track of his own Reprise Records album, while the Country Music Association nominated Robbins’s record for both Single and Song of the Year. At the 13th Annual Grammy Awards in March 1971, the tribute to Marizona won the Grammy Award for Best Country Song, giving Robbins the second Grammy trophy of his career eleven years after “El Paso”.

The bypass surgery and the hit record gave the couple twelve more years together before a third heart attack brought Robbins back to St. Thomas Hospital in December 1982. He died there on December 8, 1982, at age fifty-seven, with Marizona, Ronny, and Janet holding his hand at the bedside, keeping intact the promise he had made to an eighteen-year-old bride in Arizona thirty-four years earlier.

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Shortly after returning from World War II, Marty Robbins walked into an Arizona ice cream parlor and told his friend he was going to marry the girl behind the counter. After a hard childhood and service aboard a Navy landing craft in the Pacific, the twenty-something veteran had come home to Glendale, Arizona, around 1947. Inside Upton’s Ice Cream Parlor, 15-year-old Marizona Baldwin was greeting customers. Robbins made his declaration before he even knew her name, and Marizona later recalled feeling that same certainty the instant she saw his smile at the door. He courted her with her family’s blessing and waited until she turned 18 before they married on September 27, 1948. Long before the glittering suits of the Grand Ole Opry, Robbins supported his young wife by digging ditches, fixing cars, driving trucks, and delivering milk in the desert heat. Marizona believed his voice belonged on a bigger stage. She urged him to leave day labor for music and helped arrange for Little Jimmy Dickens to hear him at a Phoenix television station in 1951, the break that brought Robbins his contract with Columbia Records. As hit records and NASCAR racing kept him on the road, Marizona stayed behind the scenes in Nashville raising their two children, Ronny and Janet. Feeling the weight of how much time he spent away from home, Robbins wrote his 1970 Grammy-winning ballad, My Woman, My Woman, My Wife, as a tribute to her hands and the quiet steadiness that held their house together. Their marriage lasted 34 years until Robbins passed away in December 1982 at age 57 following his third heart surgery, with Marizona by his bed. Only 50 when she lost him, she spent the next 19 years preserving his memory until 2001, when she was laid to rest beside him at Nashville’s Woodlawn Cemetery, completing the life that began across an ice cream counter in Glendale.

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