When fans across America in the 1970s assumed Conway Twitty and Loretta Lynn were secret lovers, Conway’s wife Mickey responded by welcoming Loretta as a close family friend. Starting in 1971, Conway and Loretta recorded a string of dramatic duets including After the Fire Is Gone, Lead Me On, and Louisiana Woman, Mississippi Man, winning four straight CMA Vocal Duo of the Year awards from 1972 to 1975. Because their songs often dealt with temptation and unfaithful hearts, and the pair sang holding hands while looking straight into each other’s eyes on television, viewers and the press constantly whispered about an offstage romance. Temple “Mickey” Medley Jenkins had married Conway in 1956 when he was still an unknown singer named Harold Jenkins, and together they raised three children, Joni, Kathy, and Jimmy. Instead of letting the gossip or her husband’s image as a matinee idol rattle her, Mickey trusted his character and treated those intense stage moments as honest work that supported their family. Both Mickey and Loretta, who came from humble Kentucky coal country, were hardworking Southern wives and mothers. Backstage and on tour buses, the two women spent hours talking about recipes, children, and home life. Conway also built a genuine brotherhood with Loretta’s famously fiery, jealous husband, Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn, putting any suspicions to rest inside both marriages. Whenever reporters pressed Loretta about a secret affair, she laughed and told them she loved Mickey, Doolittle got along well with Conway, and their closeness offstage made acting out love songs effortless. In Tennessee, where the families visited each other at home in Hendersonville and Conway’s children grew up treating Loretta like an aunt, Mickey’s steady grace across 36 years of marriage gave the duo the peace of mind to record five consecutive number-one hits and eleven studio albums.

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When Conway Twitty and Loretta Lynn walked into producer Owen Bradley’s barn studio in Mount Juliet, Tennessee, on November 9, 1970, to record their first duet single, “After the Fire Is Gone,” they touched off more than a decade of tabloid speculation across America. While listeners watching television specials assumed the pair singing about secret motel rooms and marital temptation were real-life lovers, Conway’s wife, Temple “Mickey” Medley Jenkins, and Loretta’s husband, Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn, stood directly behind the partnership.

Released by Decca Records in January 1971, the L.E. White composition climbed to number one on the Billboard country chart and earned the pair a Grammy Award alongside the first of four consecutive CMA Vocal Duo of the Year trophies from 1972 to 1975. On stage and screen, Conway and Loretta sang holding hands and looking directly into each other’s eyes, convincing much of the public that their chemistry extended past the microphone.

Inside the Jenkins household, those stage performances never rattled Mickey. She had married Conway in 1956 when he was still an unknown 23-year-old singer named Harold Lloyd Jenkins struggling to cut rockabilly demos at Sun Studio in Memphis, and together they raised three children—Kathy, Joni Lee, and Jimmy—alongside his older son, Michael. Having stood with him through lean club dates in Arkansas and the family’s 1960s relocation to Oklahoma City when he walked away from rock and roll to start over in country music, Mickey treated his matinee-idol image and romantic duets as the honest studio work that paid their bills.

Instead of keeping a guarded distance from her husband’s singing partner, Mickey welcomed Loretta as a close family friend. Raised in Butcher Hollow in the eastern Kentucky coal fields, Loretta shared the same grounded Southern working-class sensibilities as Mickey, and the two wives spent hours on tour buses and backstage trading recipes and talking about raising their children.

Just as crucial to the peace between the two households was the bond Conway forged with Loretta’s famously fiery, protective husband, Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn, known to friends as Mooney or Doo. Rather than viewing the smooth-voiced balladeer as a rival, Doolittle trusted Conway completely and took an active hand in the duo’s career.

In 1971, after Loretta parted ways with her early managers, the Wilburn Brothers, she and Conway joined forces offstage to launch their own Nashville booking and management firm, United Talent, Inc., which they later celebrated as the title of their 1976 duet album. Doolittle was a regular presence around the office, and in 1973, when songwriter Jim Owen dropped off a demo tape titled “Louisiana Woman, Mississippi Man,” it was Doolittle who sat behind the desk, listened to the track, and told Conway and Loretta he had found their next hit.

Trusting Doolittle’s ear, the pair took the song to Bradley’s Barn and sent it to number one on the Billboard country chart in August 1973. It formed the centerpiece of five consecutive number-one duet singles between 1971 and 1975—”After the Fire Is Gone,” “Lead Me On,” “Louisiana Woman, Mississippi Man,” “As Soon as I Hang Up the Phone,” and “Feelins'”—followed by seven more Top 10 hits through 1981.

Whenever interviewers pressed Loretta about rumors of a romance with Conway, she laughed off the gossip, explaining that she loved Mickey, that Doolittle and Conway were close buddies, and that the complete lack of romantic tension between them was what allowed them to lean into each other onstage without hesitation.

That family closeness carried over into their private lives in Tennessee. When Conway and Mickey moved from Oklahoma to Hendersonville, north of Nashville, the Jenkins and Lynn families visited back and forth between Hendersonville and the Lynns’ ranch in Hurricane Mills, and Kathy, Joni Lee, and Jimmy grew up treating Loretta like an aunt.

Backed by the trust of both spouses, Conway and Loretta recorded eleven studio albums together between 1971’s *We Only Make Believe* and 1988’s *Making Believe*, including four number-one LPs, and were voted the number-one duet by *Music City News* readers every single year from 1971 through 1981. Even on June 4, 1993, when 59-year-old Conway collapsed from an abdominal aortic aneurysm after a concert in Branson and was rushed to Cox South Hospital in Springfield, Missouri, Loretta was already inside that very same hospital sitting at the bedside of Doolittle, who was recovering from heart surgery—bringing the two families together in the same hallway at the end of a lifelong friendship.

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