
Since March 16, 2020, Reba McEntire and Rex Linn have started every single morning with the same ritual they began across two locked-down states.
Their daily “Coffee Camp” grew out of a friendship that began in 1991 on the set of Kenny Rogers’ television western The Gambler Returns: The Luck of the Draw. When Rex lost his mother in 1998, Reba called him while he sat on his childhood bed, talking with him for nearly half an hour.
Rex never forgot that kindness, and twenty-two years later, overlapping guest roles on Young Sheldon brought them to a January 2020 dinner in Los Angeles with Melissa Peterman and friends. At a wine bar down the street, Rex watched Reba light up over an order of tater tots and christened her “Tater Tot” on the spot.
Days later, Reba texted Rex that doctors had diagnosed her mother, Jacqueline, with bladder cancer, and he immediately offered an ear whenever she needed to talk. After Jacqueline died at ninety-three on March 14, 2020, pandemic lockdowns kept Reba in Oklahoma and stranded Rex in California with his dog, Riddler.
Two days after her mother’s passing, Rex began waking at 5:30 in the morning California time to FaceTime Reba at 7:30 in Oklahoma. Staying at the family ranch with her sister Susie and brother-in-law Mark Lunsford, Reba started calling Rex “Sugar Tot” after Susie overheard his nickname for her and suggested one in return.
While the family postponed Jacqueline’s funeral and sorted through her home in isolation, Rex sent regular deliveries up the ranch hill, from lobster rolls and pecan pies to McConnell’s ice cream from California. Reba saved the shipping boxes alongside his handwritten notes.
On other mornings, he logged onto their video calls wearing a custom tater tot shirt just to make her laugh before the day began. After her twenty-six-year marriage to Narvel Blackstock ended in 2015, Reba had expected to stay single, yet months of unhurried phone conversations built a deep trust before they ever held hands.
When travel restrictions eased on June 16, 2020, Rex flew to Nashville, and the two spent part of that summer driving through Montana together before confirming their romance that October on her Spotify podcast, Living & Learning with Reba McEntire.
Moving under the same roof never ended their morning routine, even when filming pulled Rex up at three in the morning. After he had oral surgery one day, Reba held their coffee session on the couch, then cheerfully brewed a second pot that afternoon when the anesthesia wore off and he had no memory of the first.
Soon their partnership carried onto television sets, first as scheming Montana outfitters Buck and Sunny Barnes on ABC’s Big Sky in 2022, and then in the 2023 Lifetime movie The Hammer, where Reba played a traveling Nevada judge opposite Rex’s rugged bartender.
In October 2024, they reunited with Melissa Peterman on NBC’s sitcom Happy’s Place, with Reba starring as tavern owner Bobbie and Rex playing the soft-spoken cook, Emmett. Between running lines on the soundstage, Rex made a habit of sneaking past her mark for a quick kiss on the cheek.
Earlier that year, Rex had carried a custom rose gold and black diamond ring from an Austin jeweler on an African safari, only to hold off after learning his chosen spot was an evening walkway for male leopards. Instead, on Christmas Eve 2024, he stopped beside a creek on their Leiper’s Fork, Tennessee farm and asked to cross the finish line with her.
Reba hugged him in silence for twenty-one seconds before saying yes three times, though they delayed sharing the news after January wildfires forced two evacuations in Los Angeles. They finally confirmed the engagement on the Emmy Awards red carpet in September 2025, choosing to enjoy their engagement before hosting a relaxed, food-filled wedding with friends.
More than six years after a plate of late-night appetizers and a string of sunrise phone calls carried her through grief, the two still start every day over the same two mugs of coffee.