On October 1, 1969, fifty-five-year-old riverboat captain Floyd Dalton Jenkins passed away in Mississippi just as his son, Conway Twitty, was finally reaching the top of country music. Long before Harold Lloyd Jenkins took the stage name Conway Twitty, his father handed him his first guitar and taught him his earliest chords on the deck of a tugboat along the rivers of Mississippi and Arkansas. After spending years fighting to establish himself in country music following his early rock and roll days, Twitty had just reached the point where he could make his father proud and repay him when the older man died at fifty-five. For nearly two decades, Twitty carried the quiet ache that his father missed the biggest triumphs of his 1970s and 1980s career. In 1987, songwriter Gary Burr wrote “That’s My Job” out of his own personal fear of losing his father, knowing nothing about the Jenkins family history. When Twitty heard the demo, he was shaken by the final verse, which described a son waking up on a fine autumn morning to the news of his father’s death, mirroring his own morning on October 1, 1969. Inside the Nashville recording studio, the veteran vocalist known for his calm control and smooth romantic ballads had to stop several times as tears overtook him during the song’s climax. Setting aside his signature polished delivery, he let his voice turn rough and trembling on the final section. Released late in 1987 on the album Borderline, the track climbed into the Top 6 on the Billboard country chart in early 1988. During live shows in the final years before Twitty’s own sudden passing at age fifty-nine on June 5, 1993, the opening piano notes regularly left grown men in the audience wiping their eyes, listening to a singer still reaching back for the riverboat captain who taught him his first chords.

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On October 1, 1969, fifty-five-year-old riverboat captain Floyd Dalton Jenkins died in Coahoma County, Mississippi, just eleven months after his son, Conway Twitty, finally earned his first number-one country single.

Nearly eighteen years passed before an unpitched demo tape written by Connecticut-born musician Gary Burr reached Nashville producer Chuck Howard, who played the four-minute ballad for Twitty during the sessions for his 1987 MCA album, Borderline.

Long before the world knew Harold Lloyd Jenkins by his stage name, Floyd Jenkins worked as a ferryboat captain and farmer around Friars Point, Mississippi, and Helena, Arkansas. When his young son showed an interest in the Grand Ole Opry broadcasts playing on the family radio, Floyd put a first guitar in the boy’s hands and taught him his earliest chords on the wooden deck of his tugboat between river crossings.

After topping the pop charts in 1958 with the rock-and-roll hit “It’s Only Make Believe,” Twitty walked away from teen-idol fame in 1965 to sing the country music he and his father loved. Country radio programmers initially resisted the former rock singer, and his early Decca singles struggled to crack the top ten before “Next in Line” reached number one in November 1968.

Floyd died the following autumn at age fifty-five, weeks before Twitty walked into Bradley’s Barn in Mount Juliet, Tennessee, to record his signature hit, “Hello Darlin'”. For the next two decades, as Twitty accumulated forty Billboard number-one country hits, he lived with the quiet reality that his father had missed the height of his career.

The song that finally allowed Twitty to address that loss on record came from a writer who knew nothing about the Jenkins family. Gary Burr, then serving as the lead singer for the country-rock band Pure Prairie League, wrote “That’s My Job” entirely from his own childhood memories and his fear of losing his own father.

Burr built the verses around specific details from his youth, including a childhood nightmare about his father dying and a later disagreement over leaving home to pursue music. In the final section, Burr imagined waking up on an autumn morning to learn his father had died, wondering how a man who made his living with rhymes could ever write a song worthy of him.

Convinced the piece was far too personal and unconventional for anyone else to record, Burr doubted another artist would ever cut it. Yet song plugger Chuck Howard recognized its weight and brought the tape to Twitty, who was widely known along Music Row for listening to hundreds of outside demos himself.

When Twitty heard the final verse describing a son waking up on a fall day to the news of his father’s passing, the parallel to October 1, 1969, stopped him. He brought the song into Nashville’s Sound Stage Studios and Masterfonics, working alongside co-producers Jimmy Bowen and Dee Henry.

To frame the nearly five-minute narrative, the production team assembled a veteran studio band featuring John Barlow Jarvis on piano, Reggie Young and Fred Newell on electric guitar, Richard Bennett on acoustic guitar, Emory Gordy Jr. on bass, James Stroud on drums, and Vince Gill on harmony vocals.

Standing at the microphone, the singer famous for his steady baritone and controlled romantic ballads struggled to get through the final verse cleanly. Overcome by tears during the closing section, Twitty had to stop several takes before deciding with his producers to leave his voice rough and trembling on the master tape.

Released in November 1987 as the closing track and third single from Borderline, the nearly five-minute recording defied radio runtime limits and climbed to number six on the Billboard country chart in early 1988. Twitty later met Michael, a young listener facing the loss of his own father, and told him that whenever he played the record, he would know his father was still with him.

In the final years before Twitty collapsed and died at age fifty-nine on June 5, 1993, after a show in Branson, Missouri, the opening piano notes of the ballad regularly left grown men in his concert audiences wiping their eyes as the singer reached back to the riverboat captain who taught him his first chords.

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