
When Vince Gill walked onto the stage of the Grand Ole Opry on March 19, 2025, for the institution’s 100th anniversary broadcast, he paused before playing “Go Rest High on That Mountain” to point out that his mother, Jerene, was the exact same age as the show.
Hosted by Blake Shelton on NBC, *Opry 100: A Live Celebration* gathered dozens of country music veterans in Nashville to mark a full century since the radio program first went on the air in 1925. Gill was called upon to lead the evening’s memorial segment, backed onstage by Sonya Isaacs, an Opry choir, and his longtime friend Ricky Skaggs, who had sung harmony on the original studio recording thirty years earlier.
While portraits of late Opry icons like Loretta Lynn, Johnny Cash, Naomi Judd, and Jimmy Buffett appeared on the screen behind the band, Gill turned the microphone toward a much smaller circle. With his voice catching, he dedicated the performance to his mother ahead of her October hundredth birthday, reminding the room that for her, the ballad was simply about her son, Bob Coen.
Long before the song became country music’s standard farewell at the funerals of George Jones and Charlie Daniels, it belonged to the Gill household in Oklahoma City. Born to Jerene before her marriage to Vince’s father, administrative law judge Stan Gill, older half-brother Bob Coen was Vince’s earliest musical partner.
When Vince was just eight years old, Bob taught him guitar chords and brought him onto a local Oklahoma radio broadcast so the two brothers could sing the Beach Boys’ “Long Tall Texan” together. That early closeness shifted forever in 1968 when Vince was eleven and twenty-two-year-old Bob was involved in a devastating automobile crash that claimed the life of the other driver.
Coen survived inside a body cast after lying in a three-month coma, though the severe brain trauma permanently altered his life. For the next twenty-five years, he struggled to hold steady employment or manage daily routines, often disappearing from Oklahoma for long stretches and sleeping in city rescue missions while his family searched for him.
During his final two years, Bob returned to Oklahoma City and stayed close to Jerene, giving his mother a brief window of peace before he died of a heart attack in 1993 at age forty-eight. At the time, Gill still had a couple of unfinished verses sitting in a notebook that he had started four years earlier after substance abuse took the life of thirty-four-year-old singer Keith Whitley in May 1989.
Sitting with the grief of his brother’s hard road and sudden passing, Gill finally completed “Go Rest High on That Mountain” in Bob’s honor. Recorded with Skaggs and Patty Loveless for his 1994 album *When Love Finds You* and released as a single in August 1995, the ballad won the CMA Award for Song of the Year in 1996—where an emotional Gill could barely speak at the podium—followed by two Grammy Awards in 1997.
Decades of public performances never separated Gill from the brother who inspired the music. Speaking with interviewer Dan Rather in 2022, Gill admitted that whenever someone approached him on the street asking for spare change or help, he still saw Bob’s face looking back at him, a memory that quietly drove years of his charitable support for shelter programs.
In December 2019, during his annual Christmas residency with Amy Grant at Nashville’s Ryman Auditorium, Gill even unveiled an unrecorded final verse written thirty years after the original lyrics, offering his brother a closing promise of peace and reunion. Six years later, under the television lights of the Opry centennial, that private bond stepped back to the front of the stage.
As Skaggs and Isaacs blended their harmonies behind him on March 19, 2025, Gill was not just singing for a century of country radio history. He was singing for the centenarian mother who had welcomed her troubled eldest boy home at the end of his life, keeping Bob Coen’s name alive between them.