
IN AUGUST 2017, MIKE FISHER WALKED AWAY FROM THE NHL AFTER 17 SEASONS — BUT THE HARDEST PART OF RETIREMENT HAPPENED QUIETLY AT HOME IN TENNESSEE WHILE CARRIE UNDERWOOD WAS HEALING FROM HER OWN PRIVATE LOSSES.
For nearly two decades, Mike Fisher’s entire calendar had been built around hockey. From the morning skates and road trips to serving as captain of the Nashville Predators during their 2017 run to the Stanley Cup Final, his identity was tied to the number 12 sweater. When he announced his retirement in August 2017 at age 37, the roar of packed arenas stopped overnight, leaving an unfamiliar quiet in its place.
At home outside Nashville, his gear bag sat untouched. Fisher later spoke openly about how disorienting those early months felt once the structure of the league disappeared. Without locker-room routines, game-day pressure, or a clear next step, he found himself struggling to figure out who he was when the ice was no longer part of his daily life.
At the very same time, Carrie Underwood was carrying a heavy weight of her own out of the public eye. Between 2017 and 2018, the country star suffered three miscarriages in less than two years. In November 2017, just months after Fisher stepped off the ice, she fell on the steps outside their home, breaking her wrist and requiring more than 40 stitches in her face.
Instead of rushing straight back into another demanding tour cycle or chasing television appearances, Underwood pulled back from the spotlight and stayed close to home. The two of them were navigating two very different kinds of loss under the same roof—his sudden departure from a 17-year career, and her physical and emotional recovery. Rather than pressuring her husband to quickly reinvent himself, Underwood gave him room to talk honestly about what he was feeling while they healed side by side.
With her steady encouragement, Fisher began trading arena ice for physical work on their 400-acre farm outside Nashville. The daily chores gave his hands and mind a new rhythm. He spent his mornings mending fences, tending livestock, and working the land alongside their young son, Isaiah, who had been born in 2015.
Over time, that slower pace became more than a distraction. Fisher also began pouring his energy into projects with lasting purpose, including his Catchin’ Dreams charitable foundation and anti-trafficking efforts with the organization A21. In early 2018, he briefly returned to the Predators for one final playoff stretch before retiring for good, closing his playing days on his own terms rather than lingering in uncertainty.
By the time Underwood released her album Cry Pretty in September 2018, she was finally ready to speak candidly about the painful stretch they had survived behind closed doors. Her openness resonated far beyond country radio, showing fans that even marriages built under bright lights face seasons of grief, physical recovery, and quiet reinvention.
In January 2019, the couple welcomed their second son, Jacob Bryan Fisher. That birth marked a turning point after nearly two years of private heartbreak and transition, grounding their family in a new chapter far removed from the pressure of arena schedules.
The farm in Tennessee had started as a quiet retreat during a difficult season, with fence lines to mend and pastures to tend. In the end, it became the place where two people slowed down long enough to rebuild their lives together.