
Marty Robbins first met fifteen-year-old Marizona Baldwin behind the counter of Upton’s Ice Cream Parlor in Glendale, Arizona, twenty-four years before he entered a Nashville recording studio to turn their marriage into a Grammy-winning ballad.
Born Martin David Robinson on September 26, 1925, the former World War II Navy landing craft coxswain spent his early twenties returning to the Arizona desert to drive rock trucks, dig ditches, and work as a mechanic while singing for spare cash in Phoenix-area nightclubs. On September 27, 1948, the twenty-three-year-old singer married eighteen-year-old Marizona, and the young couple moved into a modest rear apartment on North Third Street in Glendale with their infant son, Ronald Canson Robinson, born in 1949.
By Christmas 1951, money was so scarce that Robbins did not have a single dollar to buy a toy for little Ronny, leaving Marizona to quietly borrow ten dollars from her father, Louis Vernon Baldwin, so the family could put Christmas dinner on the table.
Even after Robbins signed with Columbia Records, joined the Grand Ole Opry in January 1953, and welcomed their daughter Janet in 1959, Marizona stayed entirely out of the Nashville spotlight at their home in Brentwood, Tennessee. She managed the household and raised the children while Robbins spent months on the road or chased his passion for NASCAR, where he suffered broken ribs and concussions pushing stock cars near 180 miles per hour on superspeedways in Daytona and Talladega.
That relentless pace caught up with the forty-three-year-old star in August 1969 when he suffered a severe heart attack while touring in Ohio. Transferred to St. Thomas Hospital in Nashville, Robbins faced grim warnings from doctors as he prepared to become one of the earliest patients in the country to undergo pioneering triple coronary artery bypass surgery in January 1970.
During those hospital stays with Marizona sitting beside his bed, Robbins wrote “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife.” Instead of crafting another gunfighter drama like “El Paso,” he built the song around his wife’s quiet endurance, honoring hands worn rough from years of washing, cleaning, and raising their children since their leanest days in Arizona.
Determined to get the tribute on tape at the start of 1970 while facing open-heart surgery, Robbins walked into Columbia Recording Studio at 804 16th Avenue South in Nashville. Working with producer Bob Johnston, he gathered a session crew that included guitarists Ray Edenton, Jack Pruett, Jerry Shook, Pete Wade, and a young Charlie Daniels, along with bassist Norbert Putnam and percussionist Richard Morris on vibes and bells.
Backed by strings and vocal harmonies that gave the arrangement a cathedral-like warmth, Robbins sang the tribute with steady baritone restraint, pairing the track with the B-side “Martha Ellen Jenkins” for its January 23, 1970 single release.
By May 1970, the record reached number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart—becoming his fourteenth country chart-topper—and crossed over to number forty-two on the Billboard Hot 100. Across the country, thousands of housewives who recognized their own daily lives in the lyrics sat down at their kitchen tables to mail handwritten letters of gratitude to Robbins, and pop crooner Dean Martin recorded his own version of the ballad later that same year.
At the 13th Annual Grammy Awards in March 1971, the song earned Robbins the Grammy Award for Best Country Song as its sole composer, following the Academy of Country Music’s decision to name him Artist of the Decade.
In October 1982, after thirty-four years of marriage, Robbins stood onstage with Marizona watching nearby as he was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame. Less than two months later, on December 2, 1982, he suffered a third heart attack and died at St. Thomas Hospital on December 8 at age 57.
Marizona spent the next nineteen years in Brentwood looking after her husband’s musical catalog and fan archives until she passed away at age 70 on July 10, 2001, and was laid to rest beside him at Nashville’s Woodlawn Memorial Park.