In 1956, when seventeen-year-old Temple “Mickey” Medley married Harold Jenkins in Hernando, Mississippi, he was not yet Conway Twitty, just a broke twenty-two-year-old Army veteran with a failed first marriage, a young son to support, and no recording contract to his name. Three years earlier, in 1953, nineteen-year-old Harold had married Ellen Matthews after an unplanned pregnancy, welcoming his first son, Michael, late that year just as the U.S. Army sent him to serve in Japan. By the time he returned home in 1955, that loveless marriage was ending. He walked away from an offer to play professional baseball after hearing Elvis Presley’s “Mystery Train,” betting his future on rockabilly music even though he had no money and child support to pay. In the American South of the mid-1950s, marrying a divorced barroom singer with a child from a previous marriage carried heavy social stigma for a teenage girl. At the time, Sam Phillips at Sun Records in Memphis had repeatedly passed on releasing Harold’s recordings, and road money was so scarce that his band sometimes went hungry on tour dates in Canada. Still, Mickey never complained when he sent portions of his meager paychecks back to Ellen to support young Michael. Her quiet steadiness gave Harold the footing he had lacked since his teens. In 1957, he took the stage name Conway Twitty, and by 1958, “It’s Only Make Believe” turned him into an international million-selling star. Even as Mickey went on to raise their three children together, Joni, Kathy, and Jimmy, she always respected her husband’s bond with his oldest boy, allowing Michael to grow up close to his siblings and later work alongside his father in the band.

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When seventeen-year-old Temple “Mickey” Medley married twenty-two-year-old Harold Lloyd Jenkins on September 18, 1956, at a justice of the peace office in Hernando, Mississippi, her new husband did not yet own the stage name Conway Twitty.

Just months out of the United States Army and recently divorced, he had a two-year-old son in Helena, Arkansas, to support, a rockabilly band called the Rockhousers, and a stack of unreleased tape reels sitting on a shelf at Sun Studio in Memphis.

Three years earlier, in 1953, nineteen-year-old Harold had married Ellen Matthews in Helena before shipping out to the Far East Command in Japan during the Korean War era. Their son, Michael, was born in Helena on November 25, 1953.

While stationed in Japan, Harold played center field for the Army baseball team and sang country tunes for fellow soldiers with a service band called the Cimarrons. When he returned to Arkansas in early 1956, his marriage to Ellen ended in divorce, and a minor-league contract offer from the Philadelphia Phillies organization was waiting for him.

Then he heard Elvis Presley’s recording of “Mystery Train” coming through a car radio. Turning down professional baseball, Harold drove across the Mississippi River to Memphis to audition for Sun Records founder Sam Phillips.

Throughout 1956, Harold and the Rockhousers worked inside the cramped studio at 706 Union Avenue, cutting fiery rockabilly tracks including “Rockhouse” and “Crazy Dreams.” Although Phillips used “Rockhouse” for labelmate Roy Orbison, he passed on issuing any of Harold’s own vocal sessions as singles, leaving the young singer without a record in stores.

In the mid-1950s South, marrying a divorced barroom musician who owed child support carried heavy social disapproval for a teenage bride. After meeting Mickey at a local dance in Memphis, Harold drove her across the state line to Hernando so they could wed quietly and start their household from scratch.

With southern club bookings paying little, Harold took the Rockhousers north into Ontario, Canada, where tough tavern crowds at venues like the Flamingo Lounge in Hamilton demanded three sets a night. Between lean club payouts and nights when the band barely had enough cash for diner meals, Harold still set aside money from his pay envelopes to mail back to Arkansas for young Michael, a commitment Mickey supported without complaint.

By early 1957, convinced that his birth name was too plain for marquee lights, Harold and his management looked at a road map, combining Conway, Arkansas, and Twitty, Texas, into Conway Twitty. Signing briefly with Mercury Records for the 1957 single “I Need Your Lovin'” before moving to MGM Records in 1958, he sat down during an intermission at the Flamingo Lounge with drummer Jack Nance and wrote “It’s Only Make Believe”.

By November 1958, the record had reached number one on the Billboard pop chart and sold in the millions worldwide, allowing Conway and Mickey to establish a permanent home for their growing family. Over the next few years, Mickey gave birth to their three children, Kathy, Joni Lee, and Jimmy, raising them first in Arkansas and later in Oklahoma City and Hendersonville, Tennessee.

Even as their own household grew and Conway shifted to country music in 1965, Mickey made sure his oldest son remained part of the family circle. Beginning at age eight, Michael joined his father on stage during concert stops and spent summers and holidays alongside his younger half-siblings.

As an adult, Michael worked directly inside his father’s touring organization, traveling on the road with the Twitty Birds and performing his own music sets while remaining close to Kathy, Joni Lee, and Jimmy. Years later, Michael’s own son, Tre Twitty, continued that family line on stage, performing tribute concerts alongside Loretta Lynn’s granddaughter Tayla Lynn.

When Conway died in June 1993 at age fifty-nine and was buried at Sumner Memorial Gardens in Gallatin, Tennessee, under a red granite vault inscribed with his birth name, Harold L. Jenkins, the family burial plot included reserved space beside him for the oldest son Mickey had helped keep connected to his life since their 1956 wedding in Hernando.

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