
When Brad Paisley turned eight years old in Glen Dale, West Virginia, his maternal grandfather, Warren Jarvis, handed him a Sears Danelectro Silvertone guitar and a fourteen-watt amplifier that would soon take the boy into nearly every community hall and hospital corridor in Marshall County.
Jarvis loved the country guitar instrumentals of Chet Atkins and Les Paul, and he arranged for his grandson to take lessons from a local musician named Clarence “Hank” Goddard. By the time Paisley was nine, he was singing in his hometown church. Soon after, his parents—Doug, who worked for the state transportation department, and Sandy, a schoolteacher—began booking him for local civic banquets and community gatherings.
Some of those early bookings even paid a hundred dollars a night, a small fortune for a grade-school kid in the mid-1980s. Alongside the paid shows and church picnics, his parents insisted he take his guitar into local nursing homes in nearby Moundsville and the respite wing at Reynolds Memorial Hospital in Glen Dale.
Walking into Reynolds Memorial at age eleven, Paisley felt out of place among the quiet hallways and wheelchairs. The respite ward cared for patients in their eighties and nineties who were living with Alzheimer’s, dementia, or the aftermath of severe strokes, and many rarely spoke or moved.
During one visit around 1984, Paisley stopped in front of an older woman with short hair and thick round glasses who sat slumped forward in her chair. No matter what nurses or visitors asked her—how she was feeling, whether her family had visited, or what she had eaten that morning—the only word she could ever manage in reply was a flat “OK”.
A hospital staff member quietly mentioned to the boy what the woman’s favorite song had been before her illness. Paisley leaned down toward her chair and began strumming and singing “You Are My Sunshine”.
Within a few measures, the woman lifted her head as if waking from a deep sleep and sang the entire song softly alongside him, staying largely on pitch until the final chord faded. Standing near the doorway, Sandy Paisley began crying as she watched her eleven-year-old son draw a complete melody from a patient who could no longer hold an ordinary conversation.
As soon as the song ended, the woman slipped right back into answering every question with a single “OK”. Over the following months, Paisley returned to Reynolds Memorial and sang with her roughly half a dozen more times before arriving one afternoon to find her room empty.
He continued visiting the Glen Dale hospital throughout his teenage years,even as his schedule across the Ohio Valley grew crowded. After writing his first original song, “Born on Christmas Day,” for a local Rotary Club luncheon, the teenager formed a band called Brad Paisley and the C-Notes with Goddard and three other older musicians.
A live audition at radio station WWVA in nearby Wheeling soon made the fourteen-year-old the youngest regular cast member in the history of Jamboree USA, the Saturday night country broadcast that had aired since 1933. For the next eight years, Paisley honed his stagecraft at Wheeling’s Capitol Theatre, opening for touring acts like The Judds—a show his grandfather lived to see just two months before passing away in 1987.
After studying for two years at West Liberty State College, Paisley earned an ASCAP scholarship to Nashville’s Belmont University, graduated in 1995, and launched a recording career that brought his first No. 1 single, “He Didn’t Have to Be,” in late 1999. Grand Ole Opry membership followed in February 2001, along with three Grammy Awards and decades of sold-out arena tours.
Yet the afternoon in the respite ward stayed with him into fatherhood and philanthropy. When each of his two sons was born, Paisley brought an acoustic guitar directly into the hospital delivery room so the first song they ever heard was “You Are My Sunshine,” and in March 2020, he and his wife, Kimberly Williams-Paisley, partnered with Belmont to open The Store, a free referral-based grocery market in Nashville.
Long before he ever stepped onto an arena stage, a woman in thick round glasses at Reynolds Memorial had already shown an eleven-year-old boy from Glen Dale what a six-string guitar could reach when spoken words failed.