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In June 1961, while recovering in a Nashville hospital from a near-fatal car crash, Patsy Cline heard newcomer Loretta Lynn dedicate a performance of I Fall to Pieces to her over WSM radio and sent her husband, Charlie Dick, to bring the young singer straight to her hospital room. That bedside meeting began a fierce two-year sisterhood in a male-dominated 1960s Nashville where female singers were routinely underpaid and sidelined. Seeing how shy the Kentucky native was, Cline took Lynn to get her hair styled and her eyebrows shaped, taught her how to walk in high heels and demand fair pay, and stood guard outside Grand Ole Opry dressing rooms so no one would mock her. When Cline visited the rundown Nashville rental house where Lynn lived with her husband, Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn, she noticed the bare windows that left the family’s poverty exposed to the street. Cline drove home, took down her own curtains, and brought them back to hang on Lynn’s windows along with pots, pans, stage dresses, and white lace-trimmed silk underwear. Sitting at the kitchen table, Cline also taught her friend how to stand up for herself and never let Doolittle beat or bully her during his jealous drinking rages, a lesson that reshaped both Lynn’s marriage and her bold songwriting for working women. Days after confiding to Lynn that she sensed her life was nearing its end, 30-year-old Cline perished in a plane crash in Camden, Tennessee, on March 5, 1963, alongside Cowboy Copas, Hawkshaw Hawkins, and pilot Randy Hughes. Devastated, Lynn recorded her 1963 tribute album, named one of her twin daughters born in 1964 Patsy Eileen Lynn, and folded the white silk underwear Cline had given her into a drawer without ever wearing it again. Nearly six decades later, on April 7, 2020, an 88-year-old Lynn and her daughter Patsy Lynn Russell published Me & Patsy Kickin’ Up Dust: My Friendship with Patsy Cline, making sure the world remembered the generous big sister whose curtains and courage had sheltered her at the start.

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When 88-year-old Loretta Lynn published *Me & Patsy Kickin’ Up Dust: My Friendship with Patsy Cline* on April 7, 2020, she co-wrote the 240-page memoir with the daughter she had named after her late friend, Patsy Eileen Lynn Russell.

Nearly six decades earlier, in June 1961, 29-year-old Lynn had stood behind a microphone at the Ernest Tubb Record Shop in Nashville during a live WSM broadcast of the *Midnite Jamboree*. Knowing that Patsy Cline was lying in Madison Hospital after being thrown through a car windshield in a head-on collision on Old Hickory Boulevard, the newcomer sang “I Fall to Pieces” and dedicated it to her hero over the airwaves.

Listening on a hospital radio with a dislocated hip, a broken wrist, and jagged stitches across her forehead, Cline sent her husband, Charlie Dick, down to the record shop at midnight to bring the young Kentucky singer straight to her bedside. That hospital room visit launched a two-year sisterhood between two women navigating a 1960s Nashville establishment where female artists were treated as novelties, paid a fraction of male headliners’ fees, and pitted against one another for a single spot on touring bills.

As Lynn recounted to her daughter in *Me & Patsy Kickin’ Up Dust*, she had first watched Cline win *Arthur Godfrey’s Talent Scouts* on television in 1957 with “Walkin’ After Midnight” while living three thousand miles away in Custer, Washington. By the time she arrived in Tennessee with her husband, Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn, and their four young children, she was still wearing homemade dresses and sleeping in their car between radio station stops.

Once Cline left the hospital on crutches, she took the shy coal miner’s daughter under her wing. She brought Lynn to a salon to have her hair styled and her eyebrows plucked, taught her how to walk onstage in high heels without looking at the floor, and showed her how to shave her legs so her dark hair would not show through sheer nylon stockings.

Inside the recording studio and the Ryman Auditorium, Cline demonstrated how a woman could command respect from male executives. Lynn watched in awe during Decca sessions as Cline argued directly with legendary producer Owen Bradley over arrangements until the tracks sounded the way she wanted, and at the Grand Ole Opry, Cline stood outside the women’s dressing room to make sure nobody mocked her friend.

The mentorship reached straight into Lynn’s household when Cline visited the rundown rental house where the Lynns were scraping by. Noticing that the bare windows left the family’s lack of furniture exposed to the street, Cline drove back to her own home, pulled down her living room curtains, and returned to hang them on Lynn’s walls alongside boxes of pots, pans, and stage outfits.

In the book, Lynn also shared how Cline handed her a pair of white lace-trimmed silk underwear and gave her frank kitchen-table advice on marriage and intimacy after fifteen years with Doolittle. More importantly, Cline told her never to let Doolittle beat or bully her during his drinking rages, giving Lynn the backbone that soon drove unapologetic working-woman anthems like “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin’ (With Lovin’ on Your Mind)” and “Fist City.”

At the same time, Cline leaned on Lynn in private, confiding her insecurities about the heavy makeup she used to hide her forehead scars after the 1961 crash. Shortly before traveling to Kansas City for a benefit show in March 1963, Cline gave Lynn several of her belongings and mentioned a quiet premonition that she might not have much time left.

On March 5, 1963, thirty-year-old Cline died in a plane crash in Camden, Tennessee, alongside Cowboy Copas, Hawkshaw Hawkins, and pilot Randy Hughes. Devastated by the loss, Lynn recorded the 1963 Decca tribute album *Loretta Lynn Sings Patsy Cline’s Favorites*, and when she gave birth to twin girls in August 1964, she named them Peggy Jean and Patsy Eileen.

Two years after publishing that final memoir with her daughter Patsy, Lynn passed away at her Hurricane Mills ranch in October 2022 at age ninety, leaving behind the folded pair of white lace-trimmed silk underwear from Cline that she had kept untouched in a dresser drawer for nearly sixty years.

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