About The Song
In the realm of country music, few names hold as much weight and recognition as Randy Travis. With his deep, resonant voice and heartfelt songwriting, Travis has carved a niche for himself as one of the genre’s most enduring icons. Among his extensive discography, the 1986 single “On the Other Hand” stands out as a quintessential example of his artistry, showcasing his ability to weave tales of love, loss, and the complexities of human emotion.
“On the Other Hand” is a song that masterfully captures the internal struggle of a man torn between the allure of a passionate new romance and the lingering ties of a past relationship. The lyrics, penned by Paul Overstreet and Don Schlitz, paint a vivid picture of this emotional conflict, as Travis’s vocals effortlessly convey the protagonist’s turmoil.
The song’s opening lines immediately set the stage for the internal battle that lies ahead:
“On one hand I count the reasons I could stay with you And hold you close to me, all night long”
These lyrics exude the undeniable attraction and connection that the protagonist feels for his new love interest. The imagery of holding someone close all night long evokes a sense of intimacy and longing, hinting at the potential for a deep and fulfilling relationship.
However, the narrative quickly takes a turn as the protagonist’s thoughts drift towards the complications of his past:
“So many lover’s games I could play with you But on that hand I see no reason why it’s wrong”
The phrase “lover’s games” suggests a playful and carefree approach to love, hinting at the protagonist’s desire to let go of his inhibitions and embrace the moment. Yet, the line “But on that hand I see no reason why it’s wrong” is immediately followed by the stark reality of his situation:
“There’s a golden band to remind of someone who would not understand”
The “golden band” serves as a powerful symbol of the commitment and vows he made in his previous relationship. It represents the weight of responsibility and the potential consequences of pursuing a new love while still bound by the ties of the past.
Throughout the song, Travis’s voice masterfully conveys the protagonist’s emotional turmoil. He effortlessly shifts between moments of tenderness and longing to expressions of doubt and hesitation, perfectly capturing the inner turmoil of a man wrestling with his conscience.
The chorus of the song serves as a poignant refrain, encapsulating the protagonist’s internal struggle:
“On one hand I could stay and be your loving man But the reason I must go is on the other hand”
The repetition of the phrase “on the other hand” emphasizes the weight of the protagonist’s dilemma, highlighting the opposing forces pulling him in different directions. The contrast between the desire to stay and the necessity to leave underscores the depth of his emotional conflict.
“On the Other Hand” is more than just a country love song; it’s a profound exploration of the complexities of human relationships, the weight of past commitments, and the courage to follow one’s heart. Randy Travis’s masterful performance and the song’s relatable lyrics have made it a timeless classic, resonating with listeners across generations and solidifying its place among the greatest country songs of all time.
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On one hand, I count the reasons I could stay with youAnd hold you close to me all night long So many lover’s games I’d love to play with you On that hand there’s no reason why it’s wrongBut on the other hand, there’s a golden bandTo remind me of someone who would not understand On one hand, I could stay and be your lovin’ man But the reason I must go is on the other handIn your arms, I feel the passions I thought had diedWhen I looked into your eyes, I found myself And when I first kissed your lips, I felt so alive I’ve got to hand it to you girl, you’re somethin’ elseBut on the other hand, there’s a golden bandTo remind me of someone who would not understand On one hand, I could stay and be your lovin’ man But the reason I must go is on the other handYeah, the reason I must go is on the other hand