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More than a year after his father died in January 2000, Alan Jackson put his three young daughters on his lap in a Jeep across a Tennessee pasture and let them take the steering wheel. Watching Mattie, Ali, and Dani guide that vehicle outside Nashville brought back Joseph Eugene “Daddy Gene” Jackson, the longtime Ford assembly plant mechanic in Georgia who had passed away at age 72. As the only boy among five children in Newnan, Alan had grown up bonding with his quiet, hard-working father over cheap, worn-out machines that Eugene bought and rebuilt by hand. First came a leaky plywood boat patched together with marine glue and pushed across the Chattahoochee waters by a 7.5-horsepower outboard motor. Later came a beat-up, olive-green World War II army Jeep that Alan learned to steer along Georgia’s red dirt roads and open pastures while his father sat beside him in the passenger seat, saying very little and letting the boy figure out the gears and the gas pedal on his own. Years after finding success in Nashville and buying his dad brand-new trucks to replace those hand-repaired rigs, Alan realized while teaching his own girls to drive that he had stepped directly into his father’s place. He wrote those memories into “Drive (For Daddy Gene)” for his album Drive, recorded in late 2001 and released in January 2002. Issued as a single that spring, the song spent four straight weeks at number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and won Video of the Year at the ACM Awards, though how Jackson and his director blended real family home movies with recreated lake scenes to capture Eugene’s life remains a deeper chapter behind the tribute.

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ALAN JACKSON LET HIS THREE DAUGHTERS STEER A JEEP ACROSS A TENNESSEE PASTURE — AND FOUND THE SONG THAT HONORED HIS LATE FATHER.

More than a year after losing his father in January 2000, Alan Jackson took his three young daughters — Mattie, Ali, and Dani — out to a rural pasture in Tennessee. Lifting the girls onto his lap behind the steering wheel of a Jeep, he let them guide the vehicle across the open grass outside Nashville.

That afternoon behind the wheel brought back memories of Joseph Eugene “Daddy Gene” Jackson, who had died at the age of 72. For decades, Eugene had worked long shifts as a mechanic at the Ford Motor Company assembly plant in Hapeville, Georgia, raising four daughters and one son in the small town of Newnan.

Because Eugene was a man of few words, he rarely gave long speeches about life or fatherhood to his only boy. Instead, the mechanic built a bond with young Alan through worn-out, secondhand machines that he brought home, repaired in the yard, and handed over for his son to learn on.

The first of those lessons took place on the waters of the Chattahoochee and West Point Lake. Eugene bought an old, leaky plywood boat, patched its hull with marine glue, attached a modest 7.5-horsepower outboard motor, and sat back while his young son took the tiller and steered across the water.

A few years later, Daddy Gene came home with a beat-up, olive-green World War II army Jeep. Taking Alan out to the red dirt roads and open pastures of Coweta County, the older man rode quietly in the passenger seat, letting the boy work out the clutch, the gears, and the gas pedal without hovering over him.

After Alan moved to Nashville and became one of country music’s leading recording artists in the 1990s, the roles between father and son gradually shifted. With the income from his records and tours, Alan was finally able to buy his father brand-new pickup trucks to replace the patched-up vehicles Eugene had spent a lifetime fixing by hand.

Yet it was not until Eugene was gone, and Alan watched his own three daughters gripping the wheel of that Jeep in Tennessee, that the full weight of those early Georgia afternoons settled in. Sitting down with his guitar in 2001, Jackson turned those memories of the plywood boat, the army Jeep, and his daughters into a solo-written ballad titled “Drive (For Daddy Gene).”

Working with longtime producer Keith Stegall, Jackson recorded the track in late 2001 as the centerpiece of his tenth studio album, Drive, which Arista Nashville released on January 15, 2002. Sent to country radio that March as the album’s second single, the song climbed to Number 1 on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart in May 2002 and held the top spot for four consecutive weeks, while also reaching Number 28 on the all-genre Billboard Hot 100.

To bring the song to television, Jackson teamed up with director Steven Goldmann in the spring of 2002 to film a music video at Franklin Lake in Tennessee. Rather than relying only on actors, Goldmann intercut Vintage 8mm Jackson family home movies of Eugene with staged scenes featuring Mattie, Ali, and Dani steering a Jeep alongside their father, while child actors recreated Alan’s boyhood days in a wooden boat and an olive-drab military vehicle.

That blend of family archive and lakeside filming resonated across the industry, earning Video of the Year at the Academy of Country Music Awards in May 2003. A few months earlier, in November 2002, the recording had also been named Single of the Year at the 36th Annual CMA Awards in Nashville.

Across four minutes of acoustic guitar and steel, Jackson never mentioned his father’s funeral or the grief of January 2000. He simply traced the quiet trust passed from a Georgia mechanic in a passenger seat to a father watching three little girls steer across an open field.

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